Does Generosity Make You More Attractive?

The link between overall attractiveness and a giving personality has long been drawn, but is it really true? When it comes to dating, one of the key questions that crops up is how do I make myself more attractive to those that I find attractive? We create profiles, we take the most flattering pictures, we curate and write and post… but attractiveness is a lot more than just an instance of winning the genetic lottery. In fact, what makes a person attractive has a lot less to do with symmetrical features than we might have initially believed. Apparently, you can ...

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Seeking Explores Modern Dating App Etiquette

In 2026, dating app etiquette shifts towards authenticity, clarity, and efficiency, prioritizing genuine connection over endless swiping; focus on clear profiles with recent photos, use voice/video to build trust quickly, move conversations to real dates swiftly, and embrace emotional honesty, ditching game-playing for “green flags” like accountability and direct communication about intentions (e.g., “Clear-coding”). It’s about showing up as yourself, respecting time, and using apps as a tool, not a destination, building “Micro-Mances” (small thoughtful actions) over grand gestures.  If you have ever been on a traditional dating app, you know that most of the people using them have no ...

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How to Stay Intentional When Everyone Else Quits Their Resolutions

Resolutions are not just January goals; they are long-term commitments to growth and fresh starts. They can be incredible bonding tools between couples, dating metrics when looking for a long-term partner, and self-love alignment frameworks. It is easy to give up because we often set our intentions while celebrating the Holidays. Set yourself up for success by not allowing yourself to think of January as the “final draft”, but the first round of outlines for how you want your year to look and feel–in your own life and your love life.  For those who already have a partner, or are ...

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Seeking’s 2025 Holiday Gift Guide

Great gifts—the ones people bring up months later—aren’t necessarily grand or expensive. They just fit. Into their routine. Into their quirks. Into their life in a way that makes them feel seen rather than merchandised. So Seeking has pulled together a list for that in-between stage, and for the maddeningly self-sufficient people whose Amazon carts cost more than your last vacation. These picks aren’t filler. They’re intentional. The objects people quietly covet but refuse to buy for themselves. The things that say, “I actually get you”—without ever saying it out loud. Aesop Reverence Hand Trio A refined, design-forward trio featuring ...

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The Price of Privacy

Why True Luxury Demands Zero Compromise Every pursuit of success demands choices. We trade time for progress, comfort for ambition, and risk for reward. Yet in the digital age, we have accepted one compromise that should never have been allowed to exist: the idea that security and privacy cannot coexist. You have built an exceptional life. You know that true luxury is not about what you own, but about the quality of the spaces you inhabit. The best experiences are those where you feel safe, seen, and respected. But when it comes to looking for a meaningful connection online, too ...

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We’re Raising Membership Prices (And Why That’s Good for Everyone)

Dear Seeking.com community, I want to be direct with you about something important: starting January 1, 2026, our subscription pricing is increasing. Additionally, our Premium membership tier will be renamed the Platinum membership tier or Gold membership tier, depending on your membership level and eligibility. Here’s our new pricing structure: If you’re currently subscribed or renew before January 1, 2026, you’ll keep your current pricing for as long as your subscription remains active. But if your subscription lapses after that date, the new pricing applies. Now, let me tell you why this matters and why it’s actually great news for ...

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The Real Faces Behind the Fake Profiles

How Seeking is Changing the Dating Game Online dating should be exciting. It should be about making real connections, not worrying whether the person on the other side of the screen is even real. Unfortunately, for decades, scammers have made that difficult. They hide behind stolen photos and fake profiles, turning what should be meaningful connections into heartbreak and financial loss. In 2023 alone, Americans lost more than $1.3 billion to romance scams. This isn’t a small problem. It’s one of the fastest-growing forms of cyber crime in the world. And most other dating platforms have looked the other way. ...

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